If Decisions Were This Easy, We’d All Be…
A reminder that fear isn’t always a stop sign
Do you remember paper fortune tellers from when you were younger?
My friends and I used to make them — ALL THE TIME! They were SO much fun!
If only making decisions in real life could be this easy. Just whip one of these babies up and you’re be good to go.
Unfortunately, there’s only one way to feel confident about what the future holds for us and that is to act on decisions now — today — that support a future we want to experience.
But, how do you make BIG decisions when fear has you shaking in your booties?
The first step is to recognize that fear isn’t always a stop sign.
There is a difference between fear that stems from true danger and fear that stems from stepping beyond your comfort zone.
Here’s my best advice if fear is keeping you from making and acting on a big decision:
- Remember, fear isn’t always a stop sign.
- Seek the truth. Caveat: Seek YOUR truth.
- Breathe.
- Get clear about the fear. Feel it then face it.
- Be honest and compassionate with yourself.
- Don’t beat yourself up for feeling scared.
- Listen for your authentic voice amidst the mind chatter. It is there. You already know the answers.
- Decide and take action.
- Seek Inspiration.
This beautiful short video below is an excellent reminder that getting to the other side of our fears is worth the temporary discomfort and not the big bad and scary thing we created in our minds. (1:28)
Does the fear you are experiencing stem from true danger? If not, ask yourself — what are you more committed to… the success you say you want OR the “comfort” of the status quo?
Get to the truth of it so you can make decisions quickly and confidently. Then, DO!
“I have accepted fear as a part of life — specifically the fear of change. I have gone ahead despite the pounding in the heart that says: turn back.” — Erica Jong
P.S. For those of you wishing to revisit a piece of your childhood, here’s how to make a paper fortune teller
Have fun!
My greatest passion is to expand what women believe is possible through entrepreneurship and self-leadership. If this post has inspired you in some way, I hope to meet you in the comments. Your thoughts and feedback are appreciated.
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